As a leader you'll want to make the most of the opportunity and all of the hard work/prayer
! Here is an overview from some veteran youth workers on the value of residential
trips.....
A version of this article first appeared in the June 2005 issue of Youthwork magazine
No parents. No shops. No sleep. Is that all there is to residential youth holidays?
They can be exhilarating, fun, educational, spiritual, relational and topical. But
enough of the buzz words - how can you use those four days in a hut on top of a hill
to maximum effect?
Before you start..
Veteran youth worker and Birmingham Diocesan Youth Adviser Robin Rolls is keen on
all the fun stuff, but makes it clear that it's a wise move to set your own goals
before you start planning. 'There's all the aims and objectives stuff,' he says.
'Ask yourself, "Why am I doing this residential?" "What do I want from this piece
of work?" "How does it fit into the overall plan, my aims for the year, the job,
the church's aims?" "Where do I want the young people to be after this residential?"'
Keep lines of communication clear right from the start. What do parents need to know?
What is the best way of getting them involved with the planning? Make sure you have
the full backing of your church leaders. I know of one leader who failed miserably
to get a youth holiday off the ground simply because she was left to organise the
whole thing with very little support (and didn't want to bug the vicar). This only
led to exhaustion and stress on her part, and immense disappointment for the youth.
It's worth thinking up a few key aims for your holiday and sharing them with your
Church leader, the parents, and the young people right from the word go. Clearly
and accountably evaluating the holiday before, during and afterwards means that the
experience will be seen in a far more positive light by everyone involved in and
impacted by it.
After all, residentials aren't about continually ramming Bible verses down their
throats, or shouting at them to shut up every five seconds. It's about giving them
space to be themselves, room to mature and learn, and time to discover who they are.
Okay, I'm getting a little bit idealistic, so here, collated from a range of practitioners
and Youthwork readers, are 10 practical points to think through before taking them
away, and 9 ideas for what to do with them when you reach your destination. Book
the mini-bus, buy a week's supply of earplugs, and don't forget the tea towels...
Ten Steps to Residential Heaven
If you get the practicalities and the format right, the stage is set for a fun and
meaningful time. Here are ten ideas from experience, to help you on your way.
- 'Feed them well. Don't scrimp too much on the meals. If you feed them well they'll
moan less and enjoy the activities more. And make sure that no matter how cold it
is outside, they can be warm and comfortable inside.' - Steve, residential veteran
- 'Consider venues that supply leaders - obviously you're responsible for the group,
but they may have some really good fresh ideas - after all; they try their ideas
out on a new group every week!' - Steve
- 'Be realistic - they won't be fast asleep by 10pm. If they're young, give them a
reasonable time for lights out. If they're older teens, give them some freedom but
ask them to respect the fact that others may be trying to sleep and that they won't
be excused from the next day's activities for being tired. With older kids, don't
give a strict bed time but do make sure they respect others, and they have a responsibility
to turn up to organised activities the next morning - and breakfast!' - Alex, older
teens youth worker
- 'Print an idiot-proof itinerary guide to what to take. Literally list one jumper,
four tops, trainers, wellies etc. Don't just say "sensible shoes".' - Jane, youth
worker
- 'Avoid towns and shops if you can. Stick to rural places where the idea of being
"away" can be appreciated 100% of the time. What's the point of getting away from
it all if every lunch time is spent in McDonalds?' - Jane
- 'Have a "do your own thing" time for the group when leaders are not hanging around
with eagle eyes (provide a games room or a video time). Kids will appreciate the
freedom and leaders will appreciate a break form eagle-eye responsibility.' - John,
14+ youth worker
- 'Always keep a Plan B for wet weather. There's nothing worse than watching The Matrix
six times' - Alex
- 'Know where your local A&E hospital department is, and how to get there.' - John
- 'Make sure you've got the legal end covered - including the correct consent forms
from parents. Without these a residential that goes wrong could spell the end of
your youth ministry.' - Mel, 11s-14s specialist (see Amaze's website for help on
this)
- 'Breakthroughs and special moments will not always happen during planned times (music
sessions, Bible studies etc). It is when you are least expecting it that God may
appear. 'Late night conversations, washing up times, camp fire moments, but you need
to watch out for the enemy that is tiredness; this can lead to false God moments.'
- Robin, DYA
Nine Great Residential Activities
With a little creative input, a holiday can stick in the memory for a very long time,
so here are ten ideas to help make that happen. The first six I've tried myself;
the others come from various residential veterans.
Campfire testimonies: It's an oldie but a goody. Campfire testimonies can be a real
eye-opener for everyone, especially those in your group who are unsure whether to
commit their life to Christ. The Frontier Centre which we visited had a bonfire with
logs surrounding it to sit on. This meant everyone could see each other. The more
intimate and comfortable you can make it, the better. Use blankets, hot chocolate;
anything to make it cosy. You could combine testimonies from older members of your
group with leaders' stories, or just stick to leaders. Testimonies can be incredibly
powerful, even more so when you are far from home and a bit less worried about image.
Used simply, this could be a great way of introducing a new leader to the group,
or letting your young people see your human side. For a deeper time, use the testimony
as a vault point to touch on a deeper message. End with an open time of prayer, if
appropriate.
Mega treasure hunt: This may work best if you are staying somewhere with a staff
team on site who can help you set up the clues. If you are feeling brave, place the
clues up trees, in ditches and down holes. This way they get truly grubby, bond straight
away, get some fresh air, and earn their supper!
Talent contest: A good source of embarrassment for youth leaders, both during and
after the event. Images of you dressed as Mr T singing 'Kumbuyah' will be passed
round the church for months afterwards. Don't worry, at least the kids had a good
time, and now you know that Kevin can balance teapots on his head and Martha can
rip 18 phone directories in an hour, club nights will never be the same again. On
a more serious note, if one or two young people really do not want to be in the spotlight,
give them helpful jobs such as 'camcorder manager', 'contest judge', or even 'props
manager'.
Building game: Making something HUGE together is a great way to get your team pulling
together and appreciating each other's strengths and weaknesses. Building a massive
tepee with twigs, or a raft with plastic bottles is just good clean fun.
Free worship: With more space and time your group can really use the holiday for
a more diverse and personal worship time. Don't just stick with guitar-led worship.
Get them painting, writing... whatever they want. Ask them to bring musical instruments
and favourite worship tracks.
Themes: 'I think it's important to have a good theme for the weekend. The last one
I did was on Mission Impossible and we started the weekend by kidnapping the leaders
and tying them up in the forest. The young people had to find them by following clues
with torches. The teaching sessions were also based on missions in the way they were
phrased; 'Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to...' (Emma B, viaYouthwork
Community forum)
Time out: 'One of the most laid-back residential weekends I've ever done involved
taking all the group's watches, clocks etc. off them at the very beginning. I claimed
I needed them for a game. Over the weekend we went to bed when we were tired, got
up when we woke, ate when hungry and finished the discussion sessions when we felt
we had covered the subject. Among other benefits, we had no problems getting the
young people to go to bed because they had no idea how late it was (or not - they
went at about 11pm each night!). It also took a lot of pressure off having to stretch
a session or curtail it depending on how it went.' (Andy, via Youthwork Community
forum)
In the dark: 'Why not bend the rules a bit and do a nocturnal residential? Set breakfast
at 11:30am, and lights out at 4am?' (Robin Rolls, Birmingham DYA). On a similar theme,
if you can't afford to travel far or even to have a residential away, organise a
(sponsored?) 'wakeathon' from 8am-8pm. Even though they can all fall back into their
own beds at 10am the next morning, God may provide some 'magical midnight moments'
while you are all prodding each other to stay awake. A Bible study, a midnight feast
and a dawn hike are all potential wide-awake ideas.
Awards: 'Announce a 'non-moaner of the week' award at the beginning of the holiday.
This works well as it turns moaning into a joke and you can pick them up on it without
sounding like a teacher. Provide decent prizes too.' Other award ideas include 'best
sibling award', 'most helpful person award', and 'greatest achievement award'. (Jane)
Remember…
If you've sorted all this, says Robin Rolls, then everything else should follow smoothly...
- Venue
- Programme content
- Leaders / speakers
- Catering
- Activities
- Transport
- Insurance
- Risk assessment (certificates from the venue)
- Disclaimers and consent forms
- Itinerary list for young people
- Cost (including transport hire, food, gifts for volunteers)
- Extra funding / subsidies / other support (church finance / prayer from your church
back home)
- Follow up (including gathering photos, a reunion, an 'exploring Christianity' course
for those who showed interest in the faith)
UK Centres and Organisations:
- Frontier and Pioneer Centres: www.actioncentres.co.uk
- Barnabas Trust: www.barnabas.org.uk
- Lee Abbey community, Devon: www.leeabbey.org.uk
- Regents Park Conference Centre, Cheshire: www.rpcc.org.uk
- Shaftsbury Student Housing: www.summerbreaks.org
- Scargill Christian community: www.scargillhouse.co.uk
- Youth Hostel Association: www.yha.org.uk
- Christian Conference Trust, High Leigh and the Hayes www.cct.org.uk
Adapted from: www.youthwork.co.uk/magazine/features/goaway.html